Do you suffer from financial trauma? What the heck is financial trauma?
Do you put things you need back before you reach the check-out line?
Are you searching for pennies on the bottom of your bags for the kids lunch, while your husband orders out every day?
Does your husband ask you to sign things blindly and ignore your concerns?
Does your husband spend your money before you see it?
You might have financial drama, trauma, or just be in an all out bad situation. First thing to do is ask yourself if you really know about your husband’s pay check, benefits, and obligations. Know the loans that are out on the house and the mortgages amount. This is important because down the road you will be splitting proceeds from the house and there is plenty he can do now to make those proceeds less and take loans out against the profit that you don’t know about. DON’T SIGN ANYTHING while you are in this thinking stage. Might as well bite the bullet, no more blind signing.
Robin Norwood, Melody Beattie
Read all these authors have written. Dr. Rami on youtube. Narcissists Apocalypse on Spottify.